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Have you ever had a chance to have a relationship with someone but you didn't speak up soon enough? Anyone else ever could of had a girl or guy but just completely screwed it up and missed their chance by not speaking up soon enough? There is a girl I've known since about 7 or 8 years old. It's funny because I had a crush on her even at that age, I think she was the first girl that made me say I like girls. Anyways, she was a the daughter of a family friend, as we got into our teen years my family once went to her house to visit them. I was sick so I stayed home which was mistake number one. She was I think 15 at the time? Were both now 22. She revealed to my mom, brother and dad she had a crush on me. I always kinda wondered why because I don't consider myself a very good looking guy and lets just say on the look scale even though I know that isn't what it's all about she was a definite 10. I didn't see her again until years later, it was actually at my grandmothers funeral. We were 19 at the time. She wouldn't stop staring and smiling at me. My family seen it, her family seen it but I was a ******* pussy and never said a word to her and she never said a word to me either. A few months later I added her on myspace(when people still used it) and she had already been in a relationship at the time and still is to this day. Well that's my story about how I ****** up big time. Anything similar like this happen to anyone else? | From what you told me, its not too late to tell her how you feel.
Get in touch with her, before you miss your chance for good. | Sex question for anyone!! I need to know, who feels the same? Can anyone tell me they agree?
I feel like I'm the only person I know who is a virgin. I'm 17 and it gets really annoying when someone asks "You're not a virgin right?" and so I say yes "I am a virgin" and they flip out. "Are you seriously still a virgin?" (I get it a lot). Everyone is always talking about how they had sex with that person and how great it was. I wish I could understand because sex to me doesn't seem all that great.
Sometimes its all I hear in a day and I want to cry because it seems as though I'm missing out on something big. What makes me want to cry even more is I have a boyfriend and I don't know why but I love him.
For the past years of my life I haven't been interested in things like this. It must be because I'm a loser, yet I've had so much to do in those moments of being a loser. I wrote 3 publishable books. I want to be a famous author. I've had my fun sneaking out with friends and drinking my sadness away. I'm not that much of a goodie goodie. I'm a risk taker, i dont know why but sex just isn't on my risk taking list.
Its like if you dont have sex within the first month of dating, your a loser or not a good girlfriend/boyfriend. It seems almost ignorant not to have sex with them. It's like saying your too much of a pussy to do that, and your immature for not doing it.
My boyfriend never pressured me into anything before and he is a very shy person. We are both almost in awe every single time we look at each other. We are just like taken by each other and sometimes are too shy to say a word. But i know somewhere down in his mind he has to be thinking about it.
I'm not ready for it and here are girls having sex with 12 guys at 12 years old. (exaggerating) I feel like there has to be something wrong with me.
I get scared for my life sometimes. And I think by not wanting sex i'm jeopardizing the beautiful relationship I have with my boyfreind.
And it gets me so upset sometimes it interferes with my moods and self esteem because it's always in the back of my mind. I get mad and cry easily and I feel like theres no way just to get this all out.
Is anyone here just as puzzled and confused as me? Or maybe teen issues on the same lines where your pressured into things? | OMG!
YOU SEEM LIKE A BRIGHT PERSON AND I UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM. I DONT SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH YOU BEING A VIRGIN...TEENS SHOULD WAIT LONGER TO HAVE SEX. IM REALLY PROUD OF YOU FOR BEING WHO YOUR ARE
DONT LET OTHER PPL PRESURE YOU INTO SO METHING THAT YOU ARE NOT READY FOR AND DONT WANT. IM SURE YOUR BOYFRIEND HAS THOUGHT ABOUT IT BUT THEN AGAIN WHO HASNT BUT IF HE DOESNT BRING IT UP THEN DONT WORRY BOUT IT AND EVEN IF HE DOES AND UR NOT READY HE WILL RESPECT YOUR CHOICE IF HE REALLY CARES FOR YOU
THERES IS MORE TO YOU THAN JUST SEX. ALOT OF THESE YOUNG GURLS DONT REALIZE THAT N THEY ARE EASILY INFLUENCED BY OTHERS. THEY DONT RESPECT THEMSELVES AND YOU DO
DONT LET THIS GET TO YOU. YOUR ARE YOUNG AND YOU WILL HAVE ALOT OF TIME TO ENJOY LIFE PLEASURES (LIKE SEX) LATER IN LIFE SO NOW DONT FOCUS ON IT N DONT BEAT YOUR SELF OVER IT
WHEN YOU ARE READY FOR IT YOU WILL KNOW...TILL THEM LET THESE LITTLE GURLS SLEEP AROUND AND OUT THEIR LIFE ON THE LINE | About fighting a guy at school? I've been recently going to a turn around high school program called U-Turn, it's a program designed to help teens with troubles stay in school and get an education. We get free breakfast and lunch, have smoke breaks 3 times a day, and end at 2:00pm rather than 2:35pm like my high school before this. So far it's been a great experience and I haven't missed my old school at all, except there is another program in the building beside us called "The Z Beside the Y Learning Youth Program" (because we're beside the local YMCA), and that program is for teens up to 16 years of age. We get to go to the YMCA to do a daily workout except so can the guys in the Z Beside the Y.. And one guy in there I had troubles with back in the Summer.. Read on if you think you can help a guy out with a fight.
So this guy Mitch goes to the YMCA to work out too. He's a little greasy 5 foot tall want-to-be gangster guy, and he thinks he's got the best of me ever since a little scrap we got into in the summer. We were hanging out with one of my good friends James, and his ghetto crackhead friends came by (no lie about the crackhead part..) and this little Mitch guy wants to go out in the backyard and fight me, and me being a usually peace-loving guy, and not a fighter, I denied. He continued to call me a pussy, then when I wasn't looking tried to put me in a choke holdd. I got out of it and out of anger said "Alright, lets fight" because I wasn't going to let him get the best of me there. So we went in the backyard (it was dark outside by now and we were fighting on uneven ground). We did the 3..2..1 thing and did the props. He then ran at me punching my side, then tripped me into the fence behind me. I smoked my noggin off of the fence and fell to the ground. As I was rubbing my head he flipped me over, gave me a hard sucker punch in the stomach and knocked the wind out of me. I was fighting for every breath as he started putting me in a choke hold again. He got off of me after and starting declaring is toughness saying things to the guys like "did you hear him breathing? He sounded like a little rat squealing". Everybody laughed and Mitchel felt pretty tough, but because I hadn't gotten into a fight before I didn't know how to defend myself. It's a few months later now and this guy still thinks he's pretty though making comments at me while I'm trying to work out with my friend. And lately I've been wanting to rematch him and beat the little trash-talker to a pulp, because I'm sick of people like him messing with people who don't do anything to anyone. I've been thinking I want to take this into my hands and cream the grimy little turd! Any advice for a guy who really doesn't fight? I'm very skinny and almost 6 feet tall, a lot of height over him. Could I use this to my advantage? | he only got an advantage over you because it was your first fight, and he caught you off gard. and ever if you are a good fighter there are so many other factors (like environment) that come into play that can work to you advantage or dis advantage. It helps alot to have confidence within yourself that way you can stay in control. yes your height advantage can work for your advantage because youll have longer reach.
Take up kickboxing lessons (it will help you now and also in the future) train yourself a little, build up you confidence. there is an art to fighting. its not just about swinging wildly and hope you hit your target its about waiting for an opening then striking. if you do don't be a dick a try to fight everybody just because you learnt how to fight. ONLY USE IT TO PROTECT YOURSELF, or to shut up someone that's giving you the shits like this f@#cker.
but if you dont want to wait that long, my suggestion would be to walk straight up to him dont say a word and give him a nice hook to the jaw, this give you the element of surprise and you'll catch him off gard. then you'll have your rematch ready to go. and dont be afraid to fight dirty coz if you dont i can guarantee he will. just kick him in the balls that will shut him up real quick.
but he will try to fight you again at a later date after all the score will be one all. |
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